SOUTHERN GHOSTS | |||
Who says we have only one life upon this earth? I know about a few Southern ghosts who still
walk among us.
Some of us are fortunate enough to live more than one life. I’ve heard it said that as long
as someone remembers us we live on, if only in a memory. I believe that is true.
The Bible is proof of that in more than one sense. Among its chapters are vast records of
genealogy. Those whose names are recorded there continue to live on many millenniums after
their bones have turned to dust.
Our ancestors picked up on those people listed in the Bible and named their children after
them in their honor. Many people we know have biblical names. Others were named after friends,
phrases and nature scenes during the sixties. Sky, Flower.
When my oldest brother was working as a pharmacist in a small town, he encountered a few odd
names while filling prescriptions. One lady came in to purchase medicine for her twin boys.
Orange Jell-O and Lemon Jell-O. It appeared she had seen the words printed on a box and she
just went with it. However, I’ll give her credit for not pronouncing the names like most of
us would. Orange Jell-O became O-Ron-Jay-Low and Lemon Jell-O was pronounced La-Mon-Jay-Low.
Then there was the lady who was lying there giving birth to her child when she looked up
and saw a sign with her last name on it. Her last name happened to be King. When asked what
she wanted to name her baby she replied. Nosmo. I’ll let you figure it out.
When my daughters were born, I insisted on naming them after family members and ancestors
much to the chagrin of my wife. Our oldest, we named Amanda Alice after my great grandmother
and grandmother. (Amanda Rebecca Aldridge Cockrell and Alice Usula Cockrell Foster) My middle
daughter, Rebecca Suzanne, was named after my great grandmother and her aunt (Amanda Rebecca
Aldridge Cockrell and Marilee Suzanne Mercer Wilks). By the time our youngest came along I was
giving in to my wife on the name thing. We named her Leah Catherine because my wife liked the
name Leah, and the Catherine was after one of my greats-greats, Catherine Barnett Allgood.
We ended up calling our girls Amy, Becky and Carrie. After all, a guy has to know when to
compromise. My wife was happy, I was happy, and the girls are happy. But, I did squeeze in a
little family history in there and that was my goal in the first place.
As a writer I have carried that naming thing one step further. The genealogy bug has carried
on into my latest endeavor… fiction writing. In the last year, I have written two books that
have yet to be published.
Should they ever see the light of day readers will come across names like Barnett, Fields,
Shelback, Bennett, McCray and many more from my family graveyard of names.
When trying to figure out who my characters were going to be in the stories I thought it
would be fun to resurrect the dead and let them live a little once more. Some of them are now
successful lawyers, doctors and just ordinary men on the street.
Then there are the characters I was granted permission to name after a few of my Facebook
friends, neighbors, my children, my wife and some old girlfriends. Others were named after
kids that I shared a seat with on the bus as we made our journey to school when I was a boy
growing up in Mississippi.
I thought they would get a kick out of recognizing their names in a book someday should I
ever hit the big time. For the time being, it appears they are safe in their anonymity. I have
yet to publish those books.
As for now, buried somewhere in the Library of Congress’s massive collection of manuscripts
a few of my ancestors, acquaintances and friends will live on in a new life.
They are living a life much different than the one they lived while walking upon this earth.
For a few it will be a life they could have only dreamed of. For others they are fun loving
characters readers will fall in love with. But, the fact is, we all have a chance to live
again upon this earth if only as a family namesake or a character in a book.
Death is not necessarily final for a few of us and I have been having a lot of fun
resurrecting a few Southern ghosts.
If you are at all familiar with the movie, Sixth Sense, you are familiar with the line,
“I see dead people.” Take a look around you. How many folks do you know who are named after
someone who was a limb on your family tree? If you do then you can never tell anyone you
haven’t seen a ghost because the person they were named after is living on in the memory of
their name.
Some day you may live again when someone names a child or a character in a book after you.
When it happens you will join the ranks of a few friendly ghosts.
As for me? I was named after my paternal grandfather, (Richard) Louis Algood. Where the
Richard came from is only known by my long deceased aunt, Mavis Foster. She was the one my
parents allowed to name me.
Perhaps she named me after one of her childhood friends or a movie star she happened to
like. That part of my name will forever be a mystery.
I am still enjoying being named after the grandfather I never knew. He died twelve
years before I was born. I was always told he was a fine man and that is encouraging because
being named after him I would be a Southern ghost, too.
~ Not Necessarily The End ~
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